Why Good Men Still Exist: The Story of Juma's Integrity, Discipline, and Commitment

When we say good men exist, you argue. When we say faithful men are still real, you say it’s impossible. When we say not all men cheat, you roll your eyes. I digress… But the truth? Your reality isn’t the world’s reality. Some men still choose discipline. Some men still honor their families. Let’s talk about Juma.

Juma is a man who defies the stereotypes that often plague discussions about relationships and masculinity. In a world where cynicism about men’s intentions and behaviors is rampant, Juma stands as a testament to the fact that integrity, loyalty, and respect are not outdated ideals but living principles that some men still uphold.

Born and raised in Tanzania, Juma has built a reputation not just as a successful musician but as a man of character. His recent marriage to Priscilla Ojo, daughter of Nigerian actress Iyabo Ojo, has brought him into the spotlight, but it's his actions and demeanor that truly define him. Their wedding, held in Dar es Salaam in February 2025, was a blend of Tanzanian and Nigerian cultures, showcasing a union rooted in mutual respect and love.

One of the most striking aspects of Juma's character is his commitment to family. In every public appearance, he honors his late father with a moment of silence, a gesture that speaks volumes about his values and upbringing. This act is not just a tribute to a lost parent but a reflection of a man who understands the importance of legacy and respect.

His relationship with Priscilla further underscores his depth. In an era where distractions are many, Juma remains present and engaged. There are no signs of phone addiction or emotional neglect; instead, he is intentional and involved, focusing on building a strong, healthy relationship. His humility, despite his celebrity status, is commendable. He has managed to stay grounded, not allowing fame to cloud his values.

Even his appearance reflects his discipline. From his neatly trimmed fingernails to his well-maintained attire, Juma presents himself with care and attention to detail. This neatness is not about vanity but about self-respect and the respect he has for those around him.

Notably, Juma's best man at the wedding was Diamond Platnumz, a prominent figure in Tanzanian music. Despite the association with such a high-profile individual, Juma's character remains untarnished. This speaks to his self-awareness and discipline, as he continues to uphold his values without being swayed by external influences.

In a world where many men are quick to dismiss the idea of commitment or responsibility, Juma serves as a reminder that there are still men who choose discipline, honor their families, and respect their partners. His actions challenge the narrative that good men are a rarity and that faithfulness is a thing of the past.

To the women who believe that good men don't exist, Juma's story is a testament to the fact that they do. It's not about settling for less but about recognizing and appreciating the qualities that truly matter. Well-behaved men exist, and they are worthy of your time and affection.

To the men who look up to figures like Tuface and Davido as role models, it's time to reassess. While they have achieved success in their respective fields, their personal lives have often been marred by controversy. If you aspire to attract the real thing, you must first be the real thing. Sleeping around and having children everywhere is not a flex; it's a sign of undisciplined behavior and a lack of self-control.

Times are changing, and some Nigerian women are settling for high-valued men. Again, grow! If you want to attract the real thing, be the real thing! Sleeping around and having children everywhere is not a flex, you're just undisciplined, careless, and lack self-control.

PS; I am not talking about their marriage as it’s fresh. I am STRICTLY talking about his character as a man.